Hats Off to Moms

 Photos Taken During Mother/Daughter Brunch

Hat Parade 5-3-14

Girls singing in honor of mothers.

Girls singing in honor of mothers.

Men served us at the brunch

Men served us at the brunch

Maizel sharing how to make poupouri sachet.

Maizel sharing how to make potpourri sachet.

Mary and Stephanie, hostesses, speaking with a guest, Dawn Kelly.

Mary and Stephanie, hostesses, speaking with a guest, Dawn Kelly.

Waiting to share about their choices of hats.

Waiting to share about their choices of hats.

Guests visiting while waiting to eat. My mother and sister are at this end of the photo.

Guests visiting while waiting to eat. My mother and sister are at this end of the photo.

A guest with her darling daughter.

A guest with her darling daughter.

Someone discovered the candy!

Someone discovered the candy!

There was no lack of food to serve!

There was no lack of food to serve!

Karen Bowen, seated, and Maizel Dunn, standing, led the craft-making activities.

Karen Bowen, seated, and Maizel Dunn, standing, led the craft-making activities.

 

On Saturday, May 3rd, our church celebrated mothers with a Mother/Daughter Brunch. We served fantastic Breakfast casseroles, cinnamon rolls, biscuits and gravy, egg and cheese muffins, fresh fruit, and French Toast Bakes. Young girls who accompanied their mothers recited poetry and sang songs in honor of their mothers and all of those who attended. Guests then heard a devotional describing the character qualities of a virtuous woman found in Proverbs 31.

Our theme was Hats Off to Godly Mothers so we invited attendees to wear a hat of their choice to this event. What a wonderful time we had during the Hat Parade as hat-wearers shared why they chose the hat they wore! Guests then selected crafts to create – either a fragrant sachet, tissue paper flowers, or decorating handkerchiefs or hats with trinkets, charms, flowers, ribbons, and scripture. Before closing,  mothers received gifts for certain categories – oldest, youngest, mother who raised the most children, who traveled the farthest, and the most unusual hat and to those who contributed in a special way to enhance the event. All young girls chose a beautiful hair-bow as their gift for coming.

Men served the meal, and did a truly wonderful job in assisting women with drinks at the tables and helping them carry their trays of food. These men enjoyed their meal while the women moved to the sanctuary for the program.

Young girls learned what all duties a mother performs on a regular basis through the poems they shared and the devotional presented. They also learned how the Lord honors mothers and women through scripture, through table conversations during and after the meals, and by watching their mothers interact with other moms at this event.

I enjoyed hearing women fellowship with one another, and I thank the Lord for His creation of women and His institution of marriage and family.

How does your church honor mothers and women? Have you ever attended a Mother/Daughter celebration? Please share with me your experiences and/or thoughts on this topic. Thanks for stopping by and reading my post. I appreciate you!

Mary

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FUN IN NORFOLK, VIRGINIA

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Visiting family is my favorite past time. My husband and I recently returned from babysitting our three grandchildren in Virginia. Hayden (9) and Heath (6) love hockey and soccer. Keeping up with their level of activity challenges their super-fit parents. Their super un-fit grandparents struggle with their amount of endurance and energy.

Then add their sister, Madeline (5), and the challenge increases exponentially! Maddie loves those two sports, but she sings popular songs and performs ballet, too. Often I witness this with her fashion statements. She wears a hockey helmet, beautiful sparkly, pink slippers, carries a pink purse over her shoulder, and dons either goalie pants, or a fairy princess dress!

While their parents both traveled on business, we drove them to their schools and after-school activities. I squeezed supper in there somehow each day. Weekends maintained the same level of activity.

One day while the children attended school, Owen took me to visit the Fort Henry Lighthouse. Besides my family, lighthouses are a huge passion of mine! There were actually two of them. The original one was open to the public, so we took the tour and climbed to the top in the watch room – 192 steps! I loved it! We could see out to the ocean and could understand why this lighthouse served mariners well.

Fort Henry comprised most of the land on which the lighthouses stood. During the Revolutionary War, battles for the entrance to America were instrumental in blocking supplies to Cornwallis. Eventually that British Commander surrendered partly due to the American’s victories there. We could not visit the newer Fort Henry Lighthouse for safety hazard reasons.

What are your passions? I would love to hear about them. Thank you for stopping by and reading my blog! I hope I hear from you soon.

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Sticks and Stones…

Over the years I’ve noticed how difficult it is for people to receive compliments. Some suspected I use flattery to manipulate them for my benefit. Most laughed off the comment, or denied it completely. When I took the time to extend a compliment, I meant it sincerely.

I think perhaps people are more accustomed to criticism, and therefore, they do not expect someone to make a positive remark to, or about them. How sad this is! How disappointing it is to me when my compliment is not received graciously! I recently started saying, “Okay. You’re right. I’m just a liar…” This usually gets their attention, and they think about what their response says to the one granting the compliment.

In the book of Ephesians of the Bible, the apostle Paul tells Christians this in 4:29: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but instead that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”  If we follow this command, we could end people expecting only criticism from others.

In Acts 24: 10 Paul says “I myself always strive to have a conscience without offense toward God and men.” Movies, television shows, jokes, Face Book comments, and speech in general would be much more pleasant.

The next time you feel tempted to say something mean-spirited or off-color, think about whether the remark is corrupt, or if it might build someone up (edify) the hearer.

Thank you for stopping by and reading my post. Please leave a comment below about this what I wrote and your experience with granting compliments and the person’s response.

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Focus Friday

I found this website and thought some of my friends could relate to both the poster and her books. This author went through a lot in the process of trying to have a baby.

Focus Friday.

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Mysteries – My Favorite Fiction Type

Searching for Clues

Searching for Clues

 

There are many types of fiction, but I prefer mysteries more than most. The thrill of collecting clues to solve the mystery holds my interest and excites me as I come closer and closer to solving it. As a writer, I know it’s important to state the mystery right at the beginning of the story. Then, clues placed strategically  throughout the book enlighten readers about who committed the crime. This draws the reader in to the story and gives him or her vested interest in solving the mystery. It would not be an effective mystery if no clues surfaced till the end, nor would it interesting if all of them were at the beginning and none later in the book. For me, the fun of solving the mystery is collecting and analyzing the clues to solve the “puzzle.”

What about you? What is there in a mystery that you like most? As a reader, are you skilled at finding clues in the book? When you finally make your discovery of who you think is the “bad guy,” are you usually correct? As a writer, do you ever have trouble placing clues in your story? I hope you’ll leave a comment. Hopefully, I’ll learn something from you. Thanks for stopping by! I hope to hear from you.

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Introducing your website hostess …Mary Martsching

Mary Martsching - Hostess & Author

Mary Martsching – Hostess & Author

Hello! Welcome to my website. My name is Mary Martsching, and my goal is to encourage you on this site.

Born and raised in Burlington, Iowa, I loved living on the Mississippi River and watching steamboats, barges, and speed boats pulling skiers up and down the water. Trains crossed our river via a swinging railroad bridge and ran through our town daily all day and night.

Though I was a city girl, I married a farm boy and eventually lived on a farm in Yarmouth, Iowa. I learned to appreciate the process of farming from planting to harvesting. How fulfilling to watch something you create comes to full fruition!

I taught middle school, elementary school, and worked as an area education agency consultant. In the last position I modeled  reading strategies for teachers in their classrooms. I also worked with special education teachers about behavioral and academic concerns.

Now I write mysteries and adventure stories for children ages 8-12. This new adventure includes creating this website and writing these posts to develop new relationships with those with similar experiences, values, and interests.

Again, thank you for joining me, and I hope you become part of this adventure!

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Conversation with a Grief Counselor

On Friday, April 11, 2014, I hosted a free conference call for people about ways to deal with grief. A grief counselor, Uma Girish, joined me. We discussed how to counsel my main character, Heath, in my book Finding Heath Young Lighthouse Keeper. Though Heath is a fictional character, he witnesses the death of his parents in the book. As the lone survivor, he struggles with questions about faith, guilt, and identity.

These are feelings many experience since death is a part of everyone’s life. Uma answers questions I pose about Heath, and how to help him cope with all of his grief and new living conditions, and how his guilt impacts other aspects of his life.

Listen to our recorded conversation below. If you,or someone you know can benefit from this advice and possibly more, please leave a comment below. Thank you for your visit!

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Book Signing in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

On Saturday, April 12, 2014, Barnes & Noble Bookstore in Cedar Rapids hosted an Author Day Book Signing Event. I gratefully attended this as a featured author along with thirteen other awesome authors. What a wonderful experience!

I met some incredible people – some authors and attendees! I enjoyed sharing ideas and information about the author profession as well as visitors’ interests in books and the authoring process. Amanda, the Activity Director, attended to our needs. Her arrangement of the authors suited everyone who presented and attended.

I sat at a table next to an incredibly talented young author. Michael Helgens’s science fiction books were amazing. He works for Fun and Games Productions so his book trailers he displayed captured visitors’ attention as they walked from one table to the next. Michael Helgen is someone to watch in the world of authors!

Other authors presented their books on finance, business, Iowa History, romance, the underground ministries of Muslims converting to Christianity, and more! What a privilege for me – a featured author among such a group of professional writers!

Thanks to all who visited me and either spoke with me, or bought my book. A special shout-out to Tricia O’Dell who came. Tricia was one of three BookStub winners (a free E-Book) as you can see in one of the pictures below.

Our friends, Debbie and Kevin Brubaker hosted my hubby and I that weekend. They treated us like royalty from treats in our bedroom and outstanding meals! Thanks so much for their love and friendship! After the book signing event, we went to my favorite restaurant – Red Lobster – with Michael Helgens and some of the attendees. This was a perfect ending of a wonderful day! Thanks to all who support and encourage my author career!

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Tricia with her prize for a free E-Book of Finding Heath Young Lighthouse Keeper.

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Mary seated with her display, her free candy to visitors, and the basket for the drawing for a free E-Book.

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Mary discussing her book with a visitor to her table.

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Tricia and Mary

Michael Helgens, science fiction author, seated by me, and Bethany and Andy - two new friends!

Michael Helgens, science fiction author, seated by me, and Bethany and Andy – two new friends!

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What a thrill to see my name and cover of my first book on display!!

 

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Easter Memories

As a child, Easter was always a special time of year for our family. We had family Easter egg hunts, went to church for early sunrise service, and ate dinner with Grandma and Grandpa Gerdom at their home. Our cousins came from Peoria, Illinois, and from across town from us in Burlington, Iowa. The food tasted incredible, and joking with family brought joy and laughs.  

Uncle Warren entertained us by removing his glass eye and grossing us out! Uncle Marvin taught us kindness, patience, and environmental information. I admired these men. With no father influence in my life, I envied my cousins.

One aunt hid in the bathroom when clean-up time rolled around. We all teased her since this was a “holiday happening” when we met at Gramma’s. Aunt Jean used “colorful language” and acted tough and cranky, but we knew inside she loved us deeply. My other aunt was a jokester, too. Aunt Dorothy appeared softer and more feminine than Aunt Jean, but she held her own when the family teasing started!

We cousins enjoyed getting into trouble together. We’d retreat to the basement and play Hide-and-Seek. My sister shoved our cousin, Fred, off the steps when she discovered he was hiding next to her! For some reason Grandpa had tires in his basement. We rolled them at each other in the dark. Because of all the screaming heard from us, eventually the adults kicked us out and took us to a movie. They thought they needed peace… I found out later these adults usually argues about politics or some issue of the time. At other times they just took naps, or played cards.

I enjoyed these days greatly! Karen, my cousin from Peoria was lots of fun, and her brother, Gene, was quiet and reserved. He was a lot older than the rest of us, so we were punks to him… Fred and Janis lived in the same town, but we rarely saw them. I felt almost like an outcast when we reunited, though. They all had blonde hair and blue eyes. So did their parents and my mother. Except for my oldest brother’s light brown eyes, I had the only brown eyes mine were dark) among them, and my hair was dark brown with dark-auburn highlights throughout.

Janis showed us her ability to contort her body in so many ways! We never knew what to expect the next time we’d see her. Fred tried to ignore us, but we made sure he couldn’t! Karen fascinated me with her knowledge and interests of animals and plants. She lived on a farm, and I was a city-girl.

With Easter just around the corner, these memories come flooding back to me today. I miss those days, the fun and trouble, the conversations, my aunts and uncles and Grandparents all gone now. Thank you, Lord, for the childhood I experienced and each one who affected me.

Thank you that holidays like Easter still offer opportunities for families to unite and grow together. Most of all, thank you, Lord, for Jesus and His redeeming gift of grace to all that acknowledge Him for Who He is! 

Crown of Thorns

Crown of Thorns

What does this coming holiday of Easter impact you? Are your memories of family gatherings and activities, relationship-building? Is Christ’s resurrection important to you? Thanks for coming by today. Please let me hear from you.

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AN AUTHOR’S WORLD

Saturday, April 5, 2014, was a milestone for me. I completed the first forms required by WestBow Press for submitting my next two books. This entails composing the text for the back covers, ideas for the front covers, excerpts for Amazon, WestBow, and Barnes and Noble sites, a brief biography, a story synopsis for each book, and uploading each book to WestBow’s site. My head was spinning by the time I finished.

However, with that part of the production and publishing process completed, it’s time for me to create pages for introductions, credits, reader activities, resources, and any special information I want to include in these books. As you can see, there’s much more to publishing a book than writing a story!

Now I wait for reviews and evaluations from WestBow Press about what I sent them. Follow along from this beginning step to full publication, I hope to enlighten and encourage anyone interested in writing and publishing his or her own book.

What about you? Where are you in the process of writing and publishing your book? Are you a traditional, vanity, or self-publishing author? Please leave a reply and share with me where you are on this adventurous road in an author’s world. Thank you for stopping by today.

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